Raising a healthy child requires consistent diligence, love, kindness, effective communication, and the ability to apply reasonable parameters and limits of discipline at home. Financial and emotional provisions are understandably standard necessities if you want to raise a balanced family and have a reasonable lifestyle. When parents repeatedly fail to fulfill their roles with awareness and sensitivity to each member of the family, the family unit can become unbalanced. Difficult behaviors can result in one or all family members. Dysfunctional relationships occur and are maintained when lines of action and communication are continually broken and broken and cannot be restored to the benefit of each party.

The baby is positively designed at birth to receive a quality level of nurturing from its biological caregivers. Aside from absolute dependence on the infant, all infants come into this world with physiological and emotional needs that must be considered with responsibility and love as they grow and develop. The family environment that parents create plays an important role in determining how a baby will be raised and whether it will be a well-adjusted child, a teenager, and ultimately a responsible adult, who in turn will raise his or her own well-oriented family.

Long-term deprivation, neglect, or abuse of specific needs (caused by callous parental roles) can affect a child’s development, emotional responses, and personality formation. These behaviors will easily transfer from parent to child. If the dysfunctional behavior pattern and communication have occurred within the family without any intervention and behavior modifications are not managed during the individual’s lifetime, the transmission of these behaviors is likely and will most likely prevail in the next generation.

Frequent manifestations of negative (or absent) communication and behavior by one or more people within the family, which are ultimately difficult for family members to deal with, will seep into the family and create a dysfunctional set of relations. Each individual in the family can find a level of reaction as relationships spiral into a fixed pattern of responses that address what they are experiencing. These loading moments defy the norm. Families may be openly oblivious to these events and may accept chaos as it presents itself because this is what they are used to, while others unaccustomed to change may cling to unusual coping mechanisms or hopefully realistic and humane solutions. to prevent them from happening again.

All families experience their unique problems and problems at one stage or another. To be fair, these events should happen. We all know this. Life in this millennium is not designed to be a straight line with no hitches and bumpy rides every now and then. However, when problems recur frequently at home, parents must be aware of them and pay attention to their solution if they want to avoid permanent dysfunctional relationships within the family.

Symptoms that may be the cause or effect of the dysfunctional family may include one or more of these ongoing behaviors:

– Difficult parents without adequate flexibility and understanding

– Parenting style absent (there, but not there)

– Ridicule, belittle or criticize too much

– Prejudice towards one or more family members

– Mixed feelings of love and hate.

– Bad communication

– Lack of attention to important issues (ignore, downplay or avoid)

– Lack of care or concern for the needs of another (lack of care or denial)

– Lack of ability to empathize with children, siblings or parents

– Dual values ​​and double standards, or lack of clear limits

– Decreased ability to make decisions.

– Excessive interest or micromanagement of a member or the whole family

– Insensitivity towards other family members

– Emotional intolerance

– Emotional outbursts

– Emotional insecurities

– Depression, deep-seated anxiety and feelings of sadness and despair.

– Child behaviors in adults

– Poor self-image and worth, or lack of sufficient self-identity

– Controlled / artificial speech or muffled speech

– Verbal abuse that others must tolerate

– Sexual or physical abuse that other members must accommodate

– Overworked family environment lacking family fun (workaholic, no recreation)

– Perfectionistic behaviors, overly demanding parents or children.

– Behaviors of repudiation of parents or children

– Isolation or inappropriate socialization with others.

– Narcissistic parents or children

– Rule-by-fear parenting

– Bullying (to regain the advantage)

– Growing up too fast due to advanced roles.

– Reduction of roles and responsibilities caused by overprotection