Well, this situation is complicated, isn’t it?

It may seem impossible, but it is not. In fact, you can get a guy back even if he has rejected you. This is how you do it:

Get some distance

It is very important to allow time after the rejection has occurred. The last thing you want to do is act like the type of girl who will need a restraining order against.

So take a break. You have to let your wounds heal a bit, and he made it clear that he doesn’t want you around … for now anyway.

Reopen communication

After a decent amount of time has passed (a month is a good goal), you can try to reestablish communication carefully.

How you do it depends on how close you were and how intertwined you were in each other’s lives (whether you worked together, had mutual friends, etc.). The important thing is that you keep this first interaction friendly and brief. .

Make me want to be in touch with you

Now that you’ve resurfaced and he’s had a good reminder of you, he wants to give you a good reason to keep in touch.

If he left something of his at your house, great. You can always use that as your reason. However, it’s even better to give him a more personal incentive: tell him about a cool event you know he’ll be participating in, invite him to a mutual friend’s party, etc. You can even host your own get-together and make it so cool that he won’t be able to resist going.

Keep things cool and casual

You have successfully worked to reconnect with him and have re-entered his life. Now, it’s important to keep his game head-to-head and not ruin it by being overly emotional or reopening the past with him.

Stay calm and mentally let the previous rejection slide. Don’t let yourself think about it. Make it clear that you have no expectations of him other than being his friend. This will make you wonder why and it will also drive you a little crazy; men always want what they cannot have. If you get up from the table as an option (or at least you make him think that), you are automatically more attractive.

Make him jealous

Once you’ve gotten back into each other’s lives for a while (it’s bad to do this too early because it seems like a scene and it’s obvious), it’s time to make him jealous and remind him how desirable you are.

Get your friends to help you spread the word that you are in a new situation with a new guy. You want the word to return to the true object of your affection. Another way is to simply mention your new “relationship” casually to mutual friends or acquaintances.

Start flirting

If the jealousy game was successful, he will soon talk to you and might even act very friendly while questioning you for information about your new “relationship.”

Don’t ask her if she’s dating, because you want her to think that you don’t even care. Instead, get her blood boiling a bit with some very sexy flashbacks and flirtations.

Reel it All Back

Now that you have him interested and intrigued by you again, cut him off.

Be strong and do this even if you don’t want to; It will benefit you in the long run and make their desire for you stronger if you don’t return their calls, texts, emails, etc. for a moment.

He wants to see you and talk to you, but he can’t. It’s the perfect setting and puts you in a prime position to get it back. Once he gets to see you or talk to you again, he will be putty on your hands.