Permanent denial of orgasm It has to be one of the most common fantasies of men who yearn for male chastity.

At first glance, one would think that it is rare and exclusive to the most kinky extreme fetishists.

And while that is a natural and perhaps even obvious conclusion … it is also wrong. Because for a woman it is quite difficult to understand the attraction of any type of denial of the male orgasm; but to get wrapped up in the idea that this is a permanent way of life, since a man is not allowed to have an orgasm. forever – it’s incomprehensible.

So when we come across the idea, and especially when it’s something, we guess our own husband, boyfriend, or lover actually. fantasies about, we immediately disconnected and thought “must be crazy!“.

However, permanent denial of orgasm is not only much, much more common than you think right now … actually, there are some very positive benefits for you. both of them in practice.

However, the world is not a perfect place, and free lunches do not exist, so it should come as no surprise to find that it also has some drawbacks.

In my own mind, and in the mind of my husband, the advantages far outweigh the disadvantages, and permanent denial of orgasm is something that we are in the process of beginning this practice in our marriage. We’ve practiced very long-term orgasm denial for him for a few years, but now we think it’s time to take that final step and make it permanent.

It is important to realize that this is not just my decision, and it is definitely not a decision that I am forcing or coercing you into. That is probably the most important lesson I can teach you about male chastity. Because if you don’t really embrace that idea, you’re unlikely to get what you want from it.

Okay, let’s look at some concrete pros and cons of permanent orgasm denial.

First, the pros.

Tea first the benefit is by far the greatest. It is the massive increase you get in the amount of physical and emotional intimacy that you enjoy in your relationship.

An excited and horny man is a loving and caring man.

And if he’s emotionally mature, he’s not a bully or a plague either (some men say they want orgasm denial, but what they really want is jokes followed by orgasm, and if they don’t, they get very nervous. I suggest you refuse to play the game).

Tea second The benefit is different from “long term” denial with occasional orgasms, your man can completely relax in his new life.

He can really be himself and be open and honest with you, because he knows that ingratiating yourself with you won’t help. He can’t earn, or complain, or complain, or coax her into an orgasm, because he Never get one.

Period. Many men love the certainty this gives them when making love.

And the third The benefit is that you can focus all your attention when making love on you. Many men tell me that the reason they crave orgasm denial is that they know deep down that they are not completely satisfying their wives and girlfriends between the sheets. So instinctively know that orgasm denial will help them improve this. And permanent denial of orgasm simply pushes this focus and concentration to its maximum limit.

But, as I said before, not everything is a bed of roses.

So now the cons:

Tea first The downside is that it is difficult for him. I know it’s a fiery fantasy for him, but practically every time he plays it out in his mind, he brings himself to orgasm. If you live in permanent denial of orgasm … that won’t happen. Always.

Tea second The downside is that it is also hard work for a woman. You can’t just “lock it up and leave it.” For it to work, he wants to tease and tune in and bring it to the point of orgasm … and then he will beg you to let him have one.

And you won’t.

Always.

Once he’s calmed down, you’ll be grateful, I promise.

But at that point, it’s really hard not to give him what he wants (and what you want too, because let’s face it, it’s nice make a man have an orgasm, right?).

And the third And the last downside is that you have to work harder and be more inventive with your sex life to make sure you don’t slip back into boring old ways, but no orgasms this time! That won’t solve anything and, in fact, it will eventually explode in your face. Remember: chastity and orgasm denial are not the same as celibacy.

As you can see, it’s not clear at all, and permanent orgasm denial isn’t right for everyone.

But if you’ve read yours and still want it, then it will pay off handsomely to do your “due diligence” and learn more about it.