Trust, like communication, is at the heart of any relationship. Trust means the ‘firm belief in the reliability, truth, ability or strength of someone or something. In the following article we will see why building trust is a priority in an intimate relationship; however, this could also apply to other types of relationships. Also see the article on ‘How to build trust in your relationship’ for more information.

Consistency

When we have created a state of trust we must have been consistent in our actions, words and behaviors. This usually leads to a belief in the continuation and seriousness of the relationship. It allows you to come to a place of rest and ease about the state of the relationship and not have to question whether your partner is walking away from the relationship any time soon.

vulnerability

Trust is closely related to the vulnerability and openness that we allow. This is especially important for any long-term intimate relationship that is intended to be deep and meaningful rather than a connection of convenience. The more trust there is, the deeper sharing your true self will become. So if you want your relationship to be meaningful and successful, focus on creating an atmosphere of trust.

Sorry

Once you’ve built a solid foundation of trust, you’ll be more easily able to forgive your partner for their mistakes or misbehavior. The specific things that fall into the category of mistakes and misconduct depend on your values ​​and ‘bottom line’, which is the line between what you want to tolerate and what is not acceptable. Trust allows you to understand that a mistake does not have to mean that love is gone. Similarly, with that basic level of trust, you are allowed to be who you are, with your flaws, irrationality, and emotionality.

I respect

It is to be hoped that trust will also allow you to make a differentiation between ‘being human’ and ‘doing human’. You can respect a person for who they are, like trusting their ‘being’, even if you don’t always like or accept their behavior. A relationship of trust makes it possible to tell the truth, without having to fear the dissolution of society.

Without trust being a top priority, we can only expect a relationship based on fear and insecurity. These are the couples who live together without really being sure they can count on each other. I am sure it is your wish to live in a relationship where trust is important, if you are reading this article. Make it your priority!