Learning how to make your ex want you back is a lot like learning a new skill. You can do all the reading and research you want, but if you want to learn it as quickly as possible, you better learn from someone who has already walked the path that you are on. Here are a few things to help you get down that road much faster.

Stop trying so hard

I bet he thought the more he called and begged, the more he showed he cared. In fact, I’m going to assume that you thought doing this would make your ex want you back even more. I’m sure you’ve noticed by now that it hasn’t worked so well. If you really want to be desired again, then you need to stop trying so hard. The more you push, the more your ex will push you away. The less you push, the more your ex will want to get closer to you.

Don’t get so depressed

I’m sure people have already told you, but you need to stay positive. The more you think about your breakup, the more you sink deeper and deeper until you only think about trying to get your ex to want you back. If your ex sees that you are just sitting around waiting, they will definitely use this to their advantage. Stop being depressed and, above all, stop showing that you feel depressed.

stay away

You’ve heard this over and over again, and there’s good reason for it. If you are constantly around your ex, he will never have a chance to miss you. If your ex never knows life without you, then your chances of your ex wanting you to come back are drastically reduced. Staying away will allow your ex to think about all the good things about you that he loved. Thinking about such things will awaken good feelings in your ex and eventually thoughts of wanting to see you again will arise.

Following these very easy-to-follow steps will put you on a path to getting your ex to want you back quickly. And the best part about all of this is that you won’t have to do a lot on your part. In fact, the less you do to try and get them back, the better for you. Stop trying so hard and see how quickly your ex gets back to you.