Dating Advice For Men: She Needs To Guess

Has this happened to you? You really like this new girl you’re dating. Awesome! Unfortunately, the way he treats you dictates your emotions.

This is a problem.

You react like a puppet on a string. When she kisses you and scratches your back you are happy for two days. Then he ignores you for a week and you’re ready to turn gay and jump off a cliff. She controls all your emotions day by day, hour by hour.

Have you played this role? She has turned you into a coward. Then what do you do?

In a week you can change all this. He just deals with the pain of not begging for his attention for seven days.

She keeps you guessing. Now, let’s turn this around. Keep her guessing about your feelings. Stop empowering her by reacting to every positive or negative gesture.

It’s time to get a little mysterious and aloof. Get his in the emotional guessing game. She will start to wonder how you feel towards her at any given time.

Relationship help for men, this is what you do

Give him lots of attention on Monday and nothing for the next three days. Don’t be rude and don’t completely ignore her. This not-so-subtle change in your personality will quickly trigger the “He might not be interested in me” emotion in her.

By doing this, you will realize that sometimes you have other, higher-ranking things in life. You have changed his thought process about you. The game is on and she (suddenly) doesn’t want to lose you. This is an easy key to seduction that men rarely use because they are very much in love with a woman early in the relationship.

In other words, don’t always show your cards. At least not at the beginning of the relationship. As you have heard me say many times, the “all inclusive” has a very limited lifespan.

Okay, you’ve waited the three days, now pay close attention again, and then stop. She will go crazy with passion and demand more of your time.

You have broken your cycle of giving him too much attraction. This will have immediate results if he likes you. You will notice more scratches on her back and the things you like about her. Good luck and happy dating!

Good job, no jumping off a cliff for you!